Being in relationship is a common affair now days particularly among teens. But a very few people know secrets of maintaining a successful relationship for a long. The main reasons behind the failure of relationships are ego, misconceptions, obscene talks, lustful talks etc. These things lead to the weakening of relation and the two “inseparable lovers” become enemies for each other.
Today I will explain some simple things which, if implemented in one’s life, will help to remain special for the other.
- FIRST FRIENDS, THEN LOVERS
If you are not good friends, you can’t be true lovers. If your discussion starts with love, continues with love and ends on love, then there are chances for the failure of your relationship. A relationship remains for long if you consider the other your friend and have some other topics to discuss except for romantic talks. A relationship that begins among two friends remains for eternity.
- LOVE SHOULD NOT AFFECT YOUR DAILY LIFE
Always remember, excess of everything is bad. Giving priority to your beloved than everybody else is bad. Your nears and dears should be equally important in your life. Love should be a side affair rather than the main affair. Love should be your slave and never allow it to become your master.
Some people forget their existence after commitment. Always remember, if you can’t respect yourself, forget that your partner will respect you. A person always likes and respects such a person who has self-dignity and self-respect. Always maintain some attitude. You should not allow your partner to hurt your attitude, you dignity and your self-respect. It will make you special and attractive among your friends and beloved as well.
- TALKING TOO MUCH OR IGNORING TOO MUCH
Too much always rewards too much. Talking too much makes you talk less within a short period and ignoring your beloved also affects relationship. You should always try to talk less so that you may have some points to discuss the next time. You should also not talk so less that the other may start losing interest in you. Always remain moderate.
- KEEP SOMETHING FOR FUTURE
If you want to maintain relationship for lifetime than you should avoid excessive romantic talks. Lustful talks will make you to lose interest in other. There are some areas which should be kept for future i.e. for after marriage life. Your talks should be as that of friends. Avoid talks about sex, future children, body, and other obscene things.
So guys, these are some simple things that, if implemented in your life, will certainly help you to maintain your relationship in a better way. Good luck!